Saturday, 12 February 2011
Judgement
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Tonight I’m furious.
I refer once again to the Wish List; a plea for understanding and not judgement for all who grieve. A realisation for all that there is no right or wrong way to remember or act. A realisation that it is unacceptable to make judgments and flippant comments or opinions about something you have zero experience of; and even more so if you do.
Once again I reiterate that there is no such thing as normal when it comes to grief. As far as I’m concerned or anyone else should be; anything that brings even the smallest of comfort is completely ok. It is the rituals of remembrance and honouring of memory that helps to survive the horror.
I wish you wouldn't judge us because we are not acting the way you think we should be. The truth is grief is a very personal thing and we are all different people who deal with things differently.
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2 comments:
Hope you're ok. Please put peoples' ignorance down to just that -IGNORANCE
Thinking of you :-) x
We are indeed all different; people can be very cruel when they judge and particularly when they judge something they have no experience over. What you have been through in your lives is the worst tragedy any parent can face.
God Bless,
CJ xx
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